you just need to save it for special occasions.
you: dear flist, i'd like to thank each of the twenty three of you i've shagged this week. just thought you should know i have syphilis. and leprosy. also, cooties. have a nice day!
flister1: zomg! ur icon!!
flister2: icon love!
flister 34: wow, that's some icon!
Context? Scroll down the comments here, y'all.