sandvich brings seriousness and then a giggle...
There are so many people in my family who say that shit and it's like...my 'sin' is a huge part of my identity. It influences my thoughts, my experiences, my personality — if I were not gay, I would not be me. If you reject that part of my life, you're rejecting me, period. You can't just slice people into neat little pieces and pick the parts of them you like best.
Unless you're, like, Hannibal Lecter. But that's a little different.