I've just been such a blabbermouth today, but this amuses me to no end.
Saw a mention recently of people who hate it when RPS'ers use nicknames for people in their fics. Like Orli for Orlando or Lij/Lijah for Elijah. Their reasoning seems to be that it's too personal, and since we don't know them personally, we should not use them.
Um. So...writing about them having sex isn't an issue but calling them by a nickname is??? When did sex become less personal than a nickname? Did I miss a memo or something on the sex?